Many guys dey brag say, “She moan scatter! I finish work.” But truth be say, no be every moan mean enjoyment. Some women dey moan just to encourage you, or even to rush you finish. Street truth be this: real pleasure dey show in body language, not just voice.
Sometimes she go moan because she no want hurt your ego. She dey protect your pride, so she pretend. Other times she moan because she is tired, she want make you believe say you are doing it well so you go finish fast. Bros, if you are relying only on moan, you fit dey deceive yourself.
Real signs of enjoyment is when her body is following you naturally. If her breathing is heavy, her body is shaking small small, she is holding you tight or press her waist against you — it’s enjoyment. But if she is dry, or using phone hand cover face, or she is adjusting her body anyhow, it’s red flag.
So what’s the lesson? Focus on her body and heart, not just her sound. Talk to her: “Baby, you like this? Make I go slow or fast?” Communication dey save men from guesswork. Another thing — no pressure her to moan. Some women no even moan loud at all when they are enjoying it. It is how her body respond go show you.
Lastly, don’t use porn as standard. Those moans in porn is staged acting. Real life is different. Bros, you are having sex with your wife, not a porn actress. Give her time, focus on foreplay, and understand her rhythm. That’s how you will differentiate between fake moan and real pleasure.
Moral Lesson: True satisfaction isn’t measured by how loudly she screams in bed, but by the depth of intimacy and connection you share together.
